Hello love expert,

I live in the Los Angeles area and need help because I really love Korean girls and the way they look. I would like one as a girlfriend. However, I'm having trouble meeting them.... how do I go about it? I've tried the one-to-one approach and yes, it works occasionally, but it takes a whole lot of hard work going to different places just in the hopes of meeting one who is willing to talk to me, and I need something more substantial to increase my chances of getting a beautiful Korean girlfriend without going to Korea, of course. And there aren't that many clubs to join. Any suggestions? Where and what do I do, specifically?

Perplexed

The answer is stick to the basics. Go to churches, grocery stores, concerts, etc. that are in, or geared towards the community. Also, ask friends to include you in their plans when they are going to be around groups of Koreans. You will also want to attend all the Korean events that are going on in the community (such as festivals), do your homework, find out what's happening. Especially now that we are in the warmer months there are usually a number of outdoor events that draw big crowds. You can even try posting a personal ad online and require a picture be posted in reply at a Korean Web site that is set up for such. Join whatever clubs there are, since they are a good way to meet people, and some of the people you meet may be attractive or perhaps they may have a friend. Persistence is the key1x A word of warning: if all you seek is outer beauty you are settling for too little, over the long haul inner beauty is all that matters.

Good Luck, The Love Expert